Ludwina's Blog: Are you living by your own values or someone elses?

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Are you living by your own values or someone elses?

Today is a reminder of the fruits of staying true to your values, beliefs and convictions, regardless of what people think...

It was Tijana's second day at school today and she is doing so well. This week was the first time she got public transport on her own and the first time she started school. So many new experiences in the same week. On top of that, as you know, it was the first time in 18 years I haven't had children at home. And, yes, I am doing well. Thanks for asking:) It's been a bit weird. I find myself still thinking it's lunch time and I want to join her to eat. I find myself missing her in the afternoon when she would come over and sit and read while I work. It's different, but I am certain it is the start of something new. In fact, I am surprised at how lovely the transition has been for me.

Tijana is doing so well at school. I read something that she wrote today and was blown away with her writing skills. Understand, that as a homeschooler, there is no formal education so to speak. Therefore, she has never written an essay, had a spelling test or grammar training. Yet, her writing is that of a novelist. I knew that would be the case. Having said that, I have known that she and Jordan, had everything they needed within them to succeed in what they desired to. It's just nice to see it come to fruition.

Think about it - She has never been 'officially' taught how to read, or maths, or science; she hasn't been offically taught how to do anything that is usually taught at school. She has learned it all herself. I just provided the tools when she needed them.

Yeh, I'm very proud of both her and my husband and I at the moment. Imagine how hard it was in the beginning when we pulled both our children out of school because we chose to homeschool. Both my husband and I didn't finish highschool. We had no formal education. Well meaning family and friends were highly concerned about their wellbeing. It was really challenging. But I guess it is when you buck the system. Anytime one decides to do something that goes against mainstream thinking, you're going to piss people off. I guess the thing that you need to consider is, are you going to live your life by other peoples standards or your own, regardless of how hard it is to stay true to yourself.

And there lies the point tonight. Are you being true to yourself? Are you living your life or someone elses? Have you caved in some area of your life because it was too hard to stand up to the well meaning family and friends?

We only get one shot at this life.... Choose it and choose it well...

Love to you all,
Ludwina xxx

Posted by Ludwina Dautovic on 3rd February, 2010 | Comments (2) | Trackbacks
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respect!

Wow Ludwina, I had no idea you homeschooled your kids, what an achievement! I admire you for the dedication and courage that would have taken. All the best for this next phase which I am sure would be a big step for you.
Warmly
Yvonne

Posted on 3 February, 2010 by Yvonne McIntosh

Re: Respect

Hi Yvonne, thanks for your lovely words. It has been quite a journey and I have loved it immensely. It has been strange having no-one at home, but I am getting used to it. I can't believe I've finished homeschooling. It went so very fast. Ciao bella, Ludwina xxx

Posted on 4 February, 2010 by Ludwina

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